Graduating tomorrow

Hello out there. I am sorry for not posting a quick update on my latest scans. Overall I feel good about them despite mixed results (at least in the lungs). My bone scan looked great, nothing new popped up or got worse. However, in my lungs there was some growth and yet some shrinking and even disappearing tumors in some areas. It was decided that I stay on Sutent for another cycle. So I won’t have much change in my treatment plan for at least another month to six weeks.

I am looking forward to the big day tomorrow and getting settled eventually in the Dallas/FW area. I am confident that Brandy will find a good job down there and we are really excited for the warmer weather. We are working hard on finding the best medical team possible for me on all fronts.

As for graduation, you can watch a live webcast of the commencement ceremony at http://video.utoledo.edu (it should start around 10 AM).

Thank you all for the kind words and prayers!

41 Responses to “Graduating tomorrow”

  1. Ann Schoen Says:

    Jonathan, sure was thinking about you all yesterday. I tried watching the webcast but was unable to access the site (not much of a computer geek!). My computer kept saying “not found” for some reason. I will be anxious to hear all the details. The weather outside sure is frightful. I’m sure you are experiencing the same - or worse. We all will be jealous thinking of you and Brandy when you get settled in Dallas. Thanks for the update and have a good week. Merry Christmas to you, Brandy and your families, and congratulations on your graduation. In thought and prayer - always, Ann

  2. Tracy Travis Says:

    We can’t wait to hear about your graduation day. I am sure it went well. I bet you felt really proud to get across that stage and achieve yet another goal in your life. It will be nice for you and Brandy to get down to warmer weather. I hope your holiday time is blessed.

    The Travis’

  3. Wilma Ozias Says:

    Jonathan,
    CONGRATULATIONS on your graduation!
    Looking forward to seeing you in Kansas after Christmas!
    Merry Christmas, and safe travels,
    Wilma O

  4. Holly Andrews Says:

    Jon–
    Notre Dame and KU winning bowl games? Who would have thought that…especially about KU…a couple of years ago?

    Congratulations on your graduation and your marriage…and hopefully Kansas weather will be kind to you and Brandy before you migrate to warmer weather.

    Happy New Year!!
    Holly Andrews
    (a friend and college of your mother’s)

  5. Beverly Cazenave Says:

    Hi Jon and Brandy: Thinking of you and your family. We’ve had busy days here in Louisiana with family over the holidays. Now it’s time to wind down a bit. Hope you had a good Christmas with family. Tell them hello for us. Thinking of you and praying for you. God Bless you all. Ira & Bev Cazenave

  6. Barb Wasinger Says:

    I send our love and our Happy New Year to you and Brandy and all your family. You are in our prayers and hope to see you tomorrow. Hang in there and know that we are all pulling for you and praying for your strength to improve. Our love always, Barb

  7. Julie Middleton Says:

    Jon, I just want you to know how proud we all are of you. You are an amazing person and have inspired many others. I wish there was something we could do. Just know that you, Brandy and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Hopefully, you can feel the love and support that we are providing and that it will provide some additional strength for you. We all love you Jon. Your cousin, Julie Middleton (May)

  8. matt wasinger Says:

    Hey jon,

    I want you to know that Im proud of you, and admire everything about you. You have shown more strength, courage, and faith in the face of adversity that I cannot begin to fathom. Try to not to let that kansas weather get the best of you! Go Irish!

  9. Theresia Smith Says:

    Jon -

    I watched the video of you graduating the other day - what an amazing accomplishment…and also how exciting to be on TV! The only time I’ve ever been on TV was when that Jim Lehrer PBS show came to Tipton and wandered around the halls of THS with their cameras. Remember how weird it was that they’d just peek inside class rooms and we had to try to not look at the camera?! I have that video somewhere… :)

    Anyway, I just wanted to say hi and I hope that you’re doing well! I’m excited that you’re in Tipton so I can see you and Brandy next time I come home! Hopefully it’ll be soon, but I just never know what days I’ll be able to get out of the bank.

    Hope you and your family had a great Christmas! Know that you are in my prayers daily, and though I don’t see you often I cherish the friendship we’ve had over the years more than you know… Keep fighting and walking by faith - I’ll see you soon! ~Theresia

  10. Ann Schoen Says:

    Welcome back to Kansas - Jonathan, Brandy and May family. I’m glad that we got rid of all the snow before you got home. We have had amazing weather this past week. It’s almost been too nice to stay inside and watch bowl games - nah!! I know you’re excited about ND winning and the Big 12 isn’t doing to bad either. I loved seeing the web news video of you walking across that stage getting your diploma. WAY TO GO. You continue to truly be an inspiration of courage and strength. Everything you have accomplished is phenominal. Always thinking of you in prayer. Ann and family

  11. Lori Cordel Says:

    Jon & Brandy,
    There are no words to ease your pain right now. My prayer for you both is that you know Jesus as your personal Lord and Savior and that He has brought peace to both of your hearts by putting your faith and trust in HIM. HE will sustain you. You are touching so many hearts with your strength and courage from the Lord. You are such a blessing to so many.
    Our prayer is that you will continue to draw close to the Lord. Love, Dave & Lori

  12. Elizabeth Schmeidler Says:

    Hi Jon,
    I just wanted to let you know that I am so inspired by your walk and journey–the marriage, graduation, and your strength have inspired and will continue to inspire many people for ages to come. I will be praying for you during the night and each moment that God places you on my heart and in my thoughts, which is often. May He come to you and make Himself known to you in a mighty and powerful way, that you may know, in a deep and profound way, the certainty of His love and perfect plan for you. God bless you always.
    Elizabeth Schmeidler

  13. Mike Casale Says:

    Jon,
    despite all of your troubles, you have made your parents very proud and you should be proud too. i have known your dad since 1969, and met you mom at their wedding; and thru all of those mostly good years, nothing has made me more impressed with the May family than you. i think of you every morning in mass and i hope this new year brings more victories, for you and ND!
    Mike

  14. Dinah Rodehorst Says:

    Welcome home May family and Happy New Year!
    Jon, “Congratulations” on your great accomplishment! I viewed the video and even saw your mom for a brief moment. I can tell you as a parent, that is one proud moment!!
    Brandy, welcome to Kansas!
    The prayers continue for healing and comfort for the May family.
    God Be With - Dinah

  15. Jolene Albert Says:

    Jon, you’ve been on an incredible journey with many life accomplishments. Congratulations on your graduation and marriage! May you feel the comfort and peace being at home with your family at this time. I always remember you, Brandy and your family in my prayers. God Bless!

  16. Connie Winter Says:

    Even though I don’t sign in, I check in almost daily to see if there is an update. Congratulations on your graduation. Thinking of you and your family as 2009 begins. God’s blessings to you, Brandy, and your family.

  17. Lisa Jermark Says:

    Jon and Brandy,
    We must have you two to thank for this great weather we’ve been having. It was so cold a couple of weeks ago and now that you have come back to Kansas we’ve seen the sun a lot more!! And Congratulations Mr. Master’s!! You’re an outstanding individual! You have been in inspiration to everyone that knows you for your strength and faith!! Enjoy the fresh, farm air!
    Love, Lisa, Steve, Kendra and all

  18. Aunt Nancy Says:

    Hey Jonny!
    Just to let you know we’re all so proud of your accomplishments! (Makes me tired just reading about them! ) It’s apparent to us that your purpose in life is to be an inspiration to others, proving that nothing should stand in the way of your dreams. You are the strongest person I know.

    Sorry we didn’t get to see you over Christmas - the weather just wouldn’t cooperate. At least I got to spend a little time with your Mom….You probably wouldn’t have been so entertained with all the “sister” talk going on… probably for the best that you hung out with Chuck and watched football instead… now if Tubby would’ve been here, you wouldn’t have missed it for the world. (I’ve seen how you pretend to not pay attention to all the ridiculous chit-chat - but somehow migrate closer and closer to us!)

    Anyway, we really miss you all and can’t wait for our next visit. Tell Brandy to have Settlers set up and ready for us! We continue to pray for your miracle, Jonathan… no one deserves it more. Keep the faith and stay strong. You are loved!

  19. Nichole Rustad Says:

    Jonathan,

    You do not know me but I’m close friends with your Aunt Nancy and Uncle David. They’ve kept me updated on your amazing accomplishments and truly inspiring will to beat the odds. I just wanted to let you know that you are an inspiration to many, even those you do not know, to push on even when being told it is not possible. And though this story is not ending how we all so prayed it would, you are a miracle and you have a great purpose… both here on earth and somewhere beyond. I’m so proud of you for never giving up on your dreams and I will tell your story to my children and to many others so you will live on through them. May God bless you.

    Nichole Rustad

  20. Amanda Guthrie Says:

    Hi Jon! You graduation ceremony video was so inspirational! You have accomplished so many great things! I have been receiving e-mails about you for two years…since we met you at the Women in the Outdoors event in Rock Springs.

    I just wanted you to know how much you have touched my life and how you have helped me to thing about what is important and to get over the little things that aren’t important. Please continue to stay strong and know you are in my prayers and those of my family and friends!

    With Love!

  21. Kelsey Adams Says:

    Jon,
    Your unshakable drive, strength, and optimism are truly an inspiration to all. I am so proud of all that you have accomplished and continue to wish you the best!
    Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers,
    Kelsey

  22. Todd Adolph Says:

    Jon,
    I ran into your Mom at the grocery store the other day and she introduced me to Brandy. Sure seems super nice. Congrats on the wedding and graduation! I told your mom that the NWTF was sending a film crew out to film me and another guy turkey hunting next week. I have never hunted turkeys in January, so it ought to be an experience!! It will be aired on Turkey Call TV on the Outdoor Channel. Take care of yourself.

    My thoughts and prayers,
    Todd Adolph

  23. Kathy Dandurand Says:

    Hey Jon,

    Hey Congrats on your marriage and graduation. Saw the pic on of you walking across the stage WHOO HOO felt good didn’t it!?!!! Hope you and your family had a wonderful Christmas and New Year. Thinking about and praying for you all the time. My adopted mom recently sent me this prayer:
    Just wanted to tell everyone that I am so grateful to have each of you
    in my life, currently, or in the past. I pray you all have a blessed
    day. Prayer is one of the best free gifts we receive. There is no cost, just a lot of reward. Make sure you pray, and pray believing God will answer. May today be all you need it to be. May the peace of God and the freshness of the Holy Spirit rest in your thoughts, rule in your dreams tonight, and conquer all your fears. May God manifest himself today in ways you have never experienced. May your joys be fulfilled, your dreams be closer, and your prayers be answered. I pray that faith enters a new height for you; I pray that your territory is enlarged. I pray for peace, healing, health, happiness, prosperity, joy, and true, undying love. It is a prayer passed onto you. Love Kathy

  24. Olivia Brown Says:

    Hey Jonathan,

    Sorry I haven’t been able to leave a comment for you in the past… I keep meaning to but I have been very busy. However, I would much rather write to you instead of studying for exams. And I wanted to say congrats on graduating!!!! You are a great inspiration for so many people and I look up to you very much. Also, you should probably know that you are pretty famous here since I talk about you and keep my close friends updated on all that you have done and what is going on. They don’t even know you and you inspire them, which is really amazing. There is also a picture of you and me on the “prayer” board in my theology class, so you have many prayers coming from my class and me everyday. Anyway, I hope you are feeling better and hope to see you and Brandy soon so I can beat you both in Settlers! Love you!

    Love, Livvy

  25. Jim Newton Says:

    Jon;
    I have never sent you a note on your site before. I am the guy who stopped last summer to visit. I was on the motor cycle. I figured you were already plenty busy. Anyway I have been following your progress and I have to tell you I am embarassed. You have gotten more done in the last year and 1/2 while fighting this dastardly illness than I have, and I have no excuses. I watched your graduation video and I have to say, you are “the Man”. No only that but you talked that good lookin woman into marrage. You college boys snag all the babes. I couldn’t be happier for you if you were my own. Job well done. Now that you have put sufficient pressure on the rest of us could you kind of slack off a little and try to enjoy. Seriously, I am proud of what you have managed to accomplish. You should be too. Keep us all posted on how things are going and I will remember to put a word in for you to the man upstairs. Keep the faith.

  26. Jock Michelotti Says:

    Hi Jon—I’ve been meaning to send a message since watching the video of your graduation on the Toledo TV station site. You looked great and should be very proud of your accomplishments. The other impressive part of the video was the shot of your dad. It’s been awhile since I’ve seen him and he’s holding up well for an old man! You provide much inspiration for me as I admire your courage and ability to pursue life to the fullest. I’m keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Take care. Jock

  27. Mary Tyler Says:

    Well you guys, it sure is lonely here in Ohio without you! Not much excitement when the May family is not in the house! You know that I’m thinking of you and all the fun we’ve had. Wish Kansas wasn’t so far away. Maybe I should just click my heels together to see if I end up at the ranch!

    It’s been rainy now it’s snowy and cold. My car door would have been frozen shut tonight except for the fact that I shut my seat belt in it! I’m drinking some Chamomile tea now to warm up; of course thinking of you does that to me!

    XXOO
    MT

  28. Devin Sutton Says:

    Stay strong big guy! You’re no doubt number one in my prayers Jonny. I really hope and pray that you get well soon man. :)

  29. Olivia Brown Says:

    Hey Jonathan,
    I told you your picture is on the prayer board in my theology class…and now you get to hear from all of my classmates that have been praying for you daily. I hope you are feeling better and enjoying being back at home. I hope both you and Brandy are good. Don’t give up and please continue to fight because you have made it this far already, so you are already a miracle. Both mine and my classmates’ prayers are with you.
    Love,
    Livvy

  30. Amy Furer Says:

    Dear Jonathan,
    I am a good friend of olivia’s and have been praying for you constantly through out all of the year. Olivia has told me all about you and i remember meeting you also. I hope you are feeling well and continue to fight the cancer. Congradulations on your wedding day. I’ve seen all the pictures and your looked very handsome. Brandy looked very pretty in her gown. Happy New Year.

  31. Alyssa Albers Says:

    hey Jonathan,
    I am a friend of Olivia. I am in her theology class and our whi=ole class has been praying for you since the beginning of the year. I just wanted to hey and just to let you know that you are in my prayers.

    Alyssa Albers

  32. Bridget Snyder Says:

    Jonathan-
    hi, i’m one of olivia’s classmates from her theology class. we have been praying for you everyday in class. i hope your life has been enjoyable, and i pray that you live the rest of your life at the fullest.

    Stay Stong,
    Bridget

  33. Claire Millonig Says:

    dear Jonathan,
    I am a classmate of Olivia and we have your picture up on our prayer board. We keep you in our hearts and pray for you daily. Keep on fighting you have made it so far already. I hope you are feeling better and wish you the best.

  34. Tori Groene Says:

    hey Jonathon,

    I have been a close friend with Oliva, your cousin, for many years.
    i am in her theology class this year and we as a class have prayed for you everyday. I have seen what olivia has gone through during your sickness.. and sometimes she just calls me so she can talk to someone about what you are going through.

    I can say that i am amazed of what you are doing here. Even though you are sick, your not letting anything stop you. YOU GRADUATED! …with a masters! i can say that i look up to you because you are so inspring.
    Congratulations on meeting your amazing wife Brandy, i know that you guys are forever.

    Thanks for inspiring my life and i will be praying for you.

  35. Adam Hume Says:

    Hey Jonny,
    this is one of Olivias friends form school, Adam. Those pictures of you and the Yankees are really cool. I bet that was a ton of fun to meet all of them. I think that it is great that you are still doing all of the things you like to do and its amazing to me that you jsut graduated. I dont know if I would have been able to do that. Bye the way, I think that you look kinda like Derek in that picture.

  36. Joe Armstrong Says:

    Hey Jonathan,

    Olivia Brown is in my class and we’ve been praying for you for every class and we’re always keeping you in our hearts. I’ve never met you before, but you sound like a great guy and I wish you get better soon! Congratulations of you graduation and we’re all here for you!

  37. Charlie Schaefer Says:

    Hi Johnathan,

    My name is Charlie, and I am in Olivia Brown’s theology class. I have to congradulate becuase I am jealous of you for seeing everybody from the yankees. I think that is so cool and I bet it was fun. I just hope that you don’t loose hope becuase God is always with you and no matter what there is nothing is impossible so don’t give up. You have done some amazing things in your life and you just have to remember how many people care about you so you should never give up.

  38. Emilee Says:

    Hey Jonny,
    Oliva has been praying for you everyday in ever class that i am in with her.. We all hope that you are feeling better, everyday counts. I saw your pictures from the Yankees, thats really cool. I hope you are having a fun time with your wife and that things get better. This is such a cool thing this website that really neat that you post all your progress and achievements. Keep figthing, hope your loving your life, your already a miracle. Good luck, and congrates on your Graduation! (:

  39. Luke Miller Says:

    Hey Jonathan,
    My name is Luke and I am in your cousins Olivia’s theology class. She has told us about your illness and we have been praying for you everyday. Congratulations on graduating from college. My brothers are in college and tell me it is hard. That is sweet that you got to meet A-Rod. Good look! We are praying for you!

  40. Dominic Petrello Says:

    Hey Jonny:
    First off, I have to say that I am completely jealous of you after I saw your pictures of you with DJ, A-Rod, and Johnny Damon. Wow. :)
    I sit behind Olivia in Theology and I have gotten to know her very well. I can just sense the family togetherness that you all must have. Not many families can say that they are as closely bonded as you all must be.
    I can’t say I’ve been in your position before, and I don’t know if I ever will be. But I can say this: I have had two relatives die, both from diseases or sudden ailments that were out of our reach. There’s no doubt about it: it is a hard thing to get through. We knew that their chance of survival was very very low, but that never stopped us. We prayed every day and as hard as we could, and we never gave up hope.
    Jonny, don’t ever give up. If you truly believe that you can get past this, no one is going to stop you from acheiving that goal. Keep working and keep goin along. God bless you.
    Dominic Petrello

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